There is a STAR in every "baSTARd

You can decide HOW YOU WANT PEOPLE TO RESPOND TO YOU and influence

that response...

I remember few months after my secondary school graduation (2010),

some of my male friends were complaining that some girls we finished

together have started forming big girls, they no longer greet them

when they meet on the street, they're always waiting for the guys to be

the first to greet...

My response was that "I don't experience such, I don't even notice it.

Anytime I meet those girls we greet each other very well and go our

separate ways"...

After thinking about the situation, I discovered the main cause...

I discovered that those guys subconsciously were insecure about

themselves, when they see these girls, something in them tells them

that they are less than those girls. They feel they might get shunned

if they greet first, so they wait for the girls to greet them first

and most times that never happens "...

The reason why my own experience was different is because I DON'T HAVE

THAT KIND OF THINKING, anytime I set my eyes on my school mate (either

guy or girl), I'm always very excited to greet them to the extent that

I forget who greets first..

Somehow it's like those girls read my mind, so anytime we meet, we

always have a good time, I approach them with smiles, a pure heart and

I do get much more than I bargained for....

Moral of the story : People will only treat you the way you treat them...

That same person everyone is complaining about can be good to you, if

only you would choose to act differently by being good to the person

first.

There is a STAR in every "baSTARd, all you need to do is to remove the

bad surrounding the star by responding differently...

Ojo Michael (2019)