SINGLE AND LIVING

Brother Shabalala and Sister Shukusheka, what I'm about to share with you today will change your life forever...... Kindly read on.. 

I've had conversations with some single folks and its painful to realize that most of them are putting so much pressure on themselves, instead of ENJOYING their singleness, they are simply ENDURING it.

I want you to understand that BEING SINGLE IS A BLESSING, if only you will learn to maximize your singleness, your married years will thank God for your life. 

Most people (singles) don't live a meaningful life, they are just busy WAITING ( waiting to be hooked up one day).

This is my message to all the single folks out there, "Don't be single and waiting instead be SINGLE AND LIVING.

Never put your life on a hold until you get someone to marry.

If there is anything tangible you want to do with your life, i am bold to tell you that this is the best time to start. 

Make that move, take yourself out, register for that course, buy that dress, start fulfilling purpose now, in fact being single and living will actually help you get your partner fast because BEING SINGLE AND LIVING MAKES YOU ATTRACTIVE.

As a single person, i want you to critically study the life of that person you're attracted to, you will surely realize that you're attracted to him/her not just because he/she is single but because

HE/SHE IS SINGLE AND LIVING.

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If as a single person all you spend your single years doing is just FANTASIZING ABOUT HOW YOUR WEDDING WILL LOOK LIKE, i can guarantee you that you will never have a glorious wedding neither will your marriage be enviable because all the strength you ought to use in working hard and attracting the right person has actually been wasted in the world of fantasy.

All I am trying to say through this post is that i want you to

ACTIVATE YOUR LIFE NOW THAT YOU'RE STILL SINGLE.

This is the time to serve God more ( even the Bible establishes it in 1 Cor 7:32-33). This is the time to discover and start living a purposeful life. 

This is the time to learn how to look good, how to make friends, how to be a father/mother, read books, attend seminars, get your degree .

This is the time to work on yourself until you BECOME THE KIND OF PARTNER YOU DESIRE..... 

I am bold to tell the world that I AM STILL SINGLE. I have this strong desire to remain single until i get to a point where I AM TOO LOADED NOT TO BE NEEDED BY ANY LADY, i want to be so loaded that when i finally get a partner and introduce her to the world (family and friends), everyone will surely envy her because all my female friends will love to be in her shoes, in fact my mum's friend will also envy her because they would wish i chose their daughter.

I want my life to become a PRAYER POINT FOR OTHERS ( I want young couples to pray to God for a child like me, i want that single lady to pray to God for a man like me,i want my male friends to secretly pray to be like me, all this TO THE GLORY OF GOD). I really want to fulfill that scripture which says I AM THE LIGHT OF THE WORLD.

In conclusion, i challenge you once again to ACTIVATE YOUR LIFE NOW AS A SINGLE , don't wait until you get hooked up before you start making sense. 

Remember i said getting serious with your life as a single(unmarried) will even make you more valuable and also attract the right person faster.

Brother Shabalala and Sister Shukusheka, be informed that being single is not a sin, Its a BLESSING. Stop sleeping on a bicycle, go out there and add value to yourself.... 

Always remember that NOBODY WANTS TO HOOK UP WITH A NOBODY....... # The person you want also wants something.... Be LOADED.. 

# I ( OJO MICHAEL ) AM SINGLE AND LIVING.

Ojo Michael (2019)